Saturday, December 27, 2008

weird and crazy...

We went to McDonalds today for lunch with gift cards from great grandma peterson. After eating the boys went to go play on the play area and quickly made some friends. Their conversation went like this..

Logan: Hey, I want you to meet my mom and dad

Porter: Yeah, they're kind of weird

Logan: Yep, they're just a little bit crazy.

Then we were introduced, now we know where we stand in our kids eyes.

Friday, December 26, 2008

Christmas 2008

We hope that everyone had a Merry Christmas this year. We had a great Christmas, very laid back. This was our first time not being with family and we were a little nervous about doing it all. I'll tell you what, it definately made me more grateful to my mom and mother-in-law who cook all the yummy food and let us bring a salad and show up. Brandon had to work until 3 on Christmas eve so the boys "helped" me get dinner ready. After we ate we opened up jammies thanks to grandma Bishop. Logan was hilarious opening up his, you'd of thought he hit the jack pot with the "fire jammies". After he opened them he kept telling me how much he just loved his fire jammies, the next day he didn't want to take them off. Porter was excited about his too, just was out-voiced by his older brother. We watched JOY to the World and talked about Christmas. We put out revel bars for Santa, because daddy said they were his favorite. Logan had drawn a picture of santa and wrote his name and "heart Logan" on it. It's the cutest picture ever. So once the kids to sleep we brought out the gifts, set up the few things that needed to be set up and I put the picture Logan had drawn up in my room on my desk, behind a box and flipped over. The next morning after presents had been opened he went into my room for a few minutes, and then I saw him coming out with his head down, his lip jutted out saying, "oh man, oh man!" So sadly. I saw what was in his hand and he had found that Santa didn't take his picture after all. I asked him what was wrong and he said, "Santa didn't want my picture." (Heart breaking). I told him that Santa actually loved it and must have just left it. I told him that we would mail it to him, and that seemed to make it all better, whew!


On Christmas morning Porter woke up at 5 am we told him that santa wasn't going to come if he didn't hurry and go back to sleep. So he quickly listened and did what he was told, that was a first. We then all got up around 8. The kids were so excited and even more shocked that santa had eaten all of the cookies they left out. It was so much fun watching them open presents, they were so grateful for everything they got, and were so excited. The rest of the day they played with all of their new toys. Porter was sneaking treats from everywhere he could and he always made sure to get one for Logan too. We went and watched the Tale of Despereaux, which was surprisingly good. It was a great Christmas and even though we missed being home with our families we had a lot of fun on our own. Merry Christmas everyone and a Happy New Year.

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Brandon's Sacrifice...

Brandon missed the BYU game last night so that he could go to, wait for it, WICKED with me. It was a belated birthday present for me and it was so amazing. I'll admit I didn't really know the entire story line for it, but I loved every minute of it, well besides being uncomfortable but that's inevitable at this point, right?! The singers did an amzing job and a drunk girl sitting next to us told us that she had seen it on broadway and that here in Detroit, it was just as good. So there you have it from the mouth of a drunk girl, why travel to NYC when you can attend the same thing in Detroit.
Anyways, I know I look awful in this picture but I had to have one. It was freezing cold outside and Brandon didn't want to take another picture. He'd had enough with the one we took before we left. It was such a fun night and a great date night with Brandon before the baby comes.

Friday, December 19, 2008

Seriously So Blessed :)

Last night was my baby shower and I seriously feel so blessed. A friend of mine in my ward, Jenny is due a week after me so it was a double shower for the both of us and it was so much fun to have someone to to share the "spotlight" with, since that's not my favorite position. I always worry about what if no one shows up? But almost everyone came that was invited and it was so nice to be around these amazing women.
We had the shower at an Italian restaurant, ate dinner, chatted, played a game and opened presents. It was so much fun. One of the many reasons I'm so glad to be a member of the church is no matter where I go there are awesome women who are so welcoming and I almost instantly have friends. I would hate to move somewhere and have to rely on just meeting people at random, I would not have many friends. I had a great time.

Here's the loot of goodies that I recieved. Everything was so much fun to open and see. I'm excited to get some pink in our laundry and not have all be blues, greens, and browns.
Baby news, there is none. I'm not measuring big on the ultra sound so the due date remains the same. My doctor is convinced that she can get me into labor at 39 weeks, I'm not as confident. The earliest she can induce is like 40.5 weeks. So sometime beginning - mid January we'll have a baby.
***I just wanted to post this little story about Logan as well. Brandon came home from work last night very frustrated with work. Logan was asking why he had such a bad day and Brandon said that someone yelled at him. In Logan's sweet advice he said, "Dad, if you just treat people the way that you wanted to be treated they'll be nicer to you." I love it! I love when we get words of wisdom from our small children who are sometimes so wise.

Wednesday, December 17, 2008

Snow Day

Logan and Porter have been waiting FOREVER to build a snowman. Every time it snows I tell them to wait a little while for some more snow. As it turned out it would quit snowing and quickly melt. So last night it snowed all night long and we woke up to a beautiful snow day. Brandon came home after lunch and took the boys outside to build their first SNOWMAN of the year. They had so much fun out there and were quite proud of all of their (or daddy's) hard work.

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Ward Christmas Party

Last night was our ward's christmas party. Since I'm in Young Women's I've been hearing about this party for about the last 3 months. I knew it would be big and extravagant mainly because I've heard that as far as ward parties goes this is what they focus all of their time and energy on. We were suppose to dress up as people in Bethlehem would have dressed. So yesterday I hauled my boys over to Walmart to look at the $1.00 fabric and let them pick what they wanted to wear. Logan picked his first and I knew Porter would want the same thing as him. Then Logan didn't want to be the same and wanted to change his so he and Porter didn't have to match. I told them they didn't have a choice in being different and bought what we had already picked out. I basically just cut a hole through the top piece of the fabric, tied some twine around their waist and viola, shepherd boys. They loved them and were so excited to dress up.
Our Shepherd Family

So we all were dressed up, (yes even Brandon participated, gasp! It was a shocker he did it willingly). We arrived, sang some Christmas hymns and then walked through the over flow which was turned into the path to Bethlehem. We were given bags of coins to buy our food and trinkets, and then entered the city with some overzealous Roman Soldiers, and other towns people. We have an artist in our ward who was drawing portaits of people. Logan found him instantly and waited patiently in line for about 20 minutes and then sat still for about another 15 minutes. He was very intrigued with how this guy was drawing and was very proud of his finished project. Other things they had that we could buy were ornaments, hand made soaps, our name in Hebrew, a Bishop Family Journal to keep our family record in, potted drinking cups, and tons and tons of food. As a spectator it was a lot of fun. But man I would not have wanted to put that together or to clean it up.
Here's the boys with Logan's Portrait and Brandon's Portrait. There was no hope for Porter in sitting still that long. When Mary and Joseph came walking through the town he decided to throw a conniption and had to be removed from the area. He then took a drink of water from the drinking fountain and dribbled all down the front of him and started freaking out that he ruined his Halloween costume. We left shortly after that.

The other day Logan and I were walking in the store and he turned to me and said, "Mom Christmas isn't all about the decorations!" I was a little taken aback by this and a little proud, so I wanted to see where he was going to go with this and asked him, "that's right, what is Christmas all about?" He got a big old grin and said, "PRESENTS!" Oh how my heart broke, I felt like such a failure. I explained to him it was about the birth of Jesus and the hope that he brought into the world. So last night after the program which he intently listened to I asked him what Christmas was all about and he said, "Not just the activities, but presents too." Sigh! What is a mother suppose to do. Some day he'll learn right?

Friday, December 12, 2008

Just a bunch of randomness

Here's kind of a picture of my belly, and Porter giving baby sister a kiss. Sorry for those of you who wanted to see what I've been talking about lately, but it's the picture I had on my camera already.


WHY DAD IS "SO TOTALLY AWESOME"

My conversation with Logan the other day went like this, "Mom, did you know that dad is so totally awesome?"
Me: "really!"
Logan: "Yeah, he can build totally awesome Lego's. But you can't mom, you're not as good as dad. He builds me space ships, Christmas trees and robots. I love it!"

Now I know where I stand with my son. I need to learn some cool lego building skills, cause I don't have any. Just ask my kids.


NOT MUCH HAS CHANGED, HAS IT!

We had the top picture up on our fridge and I was looking at it the other day and realized nothing has really changed in Porter's eating methods. He's just a mess to say the least, but looking at that little guy make's me really miss that stage of life. I'm glad that I have another baby to go through it with again.
Yes I know this blog is totally random but I just had a couple of short things to post and so there you have it. Merry Christmas everyone.


Tuesday, December 9, 2008

36 Weeks

We're in the final stretch here with this little babe. I'm getting really excited to see her and hold her, and to be able to bend over without holding my breath and to sleep on my side without my ribs being kicked, yes she has found the "sweet spot" that both of my boys loved to press up against and it's a little tender. But really isn't it amazing that this little girl is growing inside of me, I still find it shocking at times.
I had my doctor's appointment and she decided to go ahead and do the ultra sound next week. I measured right on time this week and I actually paid attention to my weight gain and I've only gained 28 lbs. I say only because with my boys I gained over 50lbs each. So maybe this little girl will be little, kind of freaky... So once again with all things baby we don't know a whole lot.
We might have a name, at least we're getting closer. But for now it's our secret:)

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Say what?

As a baby update, yes I am large and in charge and look like I've swallowed a basketball. I know this, I know what I look like and yet I still am shocked at the boldness of people I know and don't know. If I go out in public at all I get the stink eye from people who look at my two rowdy boys, then to the belly and say "you look like your ready to pop!" Or "wow you have your hands full." Yes I know, would you like one of them. This happens at least once a day if not more. I've also recieved statements like "I've never seen anyone get as big as you." Then today I had it, as I was walking I was told to quit waddling. Yes it was said in fun, I think. But my heck do we really need to point out my belly and how I move around all the time? I have just had it and have decided to go into isolation and avoid everyone and their comments.
As a real baby update I go back to the doctor on tuesday and if I'm measuring big again, last time I was measuring a week bigger. My doctor might do an ultra sound to see if the baby is actually measuring bigger so she can move up my due date. She really wants to induce me a week early I think she's afraid of monster size babies. I'm not sure how I feel about going a week early, I'm nervous of having 3 kids it's uncomfortable but it's easier keeping her inside me than having her out. So we'll keep you posted.

Sunday, November 30, 2008

WE NEED YOURS...

Yes it's that time of year again. We need your address, especailly for all of you mover's like us for christmas cards. Please email me if you would like to recieve a christmas card from the bishop family. My email is bkl_sweets@yahoo.com Thanks!

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Holiday Traditions

Happy Thanksgiving! I know it's a few days late but better late than never. We had a great Thanksgiving. My brother, his wife and their 3 boys came and stayed with us and we had such a good time. It's always so much fun to see them and our kids have so much fun together.


We started the day off by getting the food started and then my favorite part, or at least one of them, looked through the ad's to find our places to conquer the next day. Unfortunately the ad's weren't super great this year and due to the trampling incidences around the country I don't think they'll get much better from this point on. But my SIL and I found some places to go and things that we knew our kids would love so we planned ahead. We ate our dinner, had pie, as seen by my Porter man, he loves chocolate pie, and enjoyed the rest of our day together. The next morning Jami and I headed out to stand in a Toys R Us line for over an hour :( but we did get what we wanted. We headed around to some other stores and found everything we had on our lists. I recieved a phone call from Brandon after our 4th store telling me that I had to come home now, the boys were going a little too crazy for him I guess. So we called it quits and finished the rest of our shpping online once we got home.

After we got home and got some lunch we took the kids over to the mall to ride the train and to see Santa. The train people weren't the happiest people to be around, but once we finally got on the train the boys had a blast. Aren't they all so cute.
Logan told santa that he wanted a light saber this year, I think that one will be do-able since his cousin got him that for christmas. Yes it's a good thing that he can't read or else I'd be spoiling all of his fun.

I didn't hear what Porter told santa but when I asked him what he had said he told me that he wanted a "hippopotamus". I think daddy has been singing that song a little too much this year. He's starting to influence our kids wants for Christmas.
We went against all the rules and set up our christmas tree last saturday. It was so much fun to be able to have our own big tree this year and to put all of our favorite ornaments on them. The boys got a kick out of looking at their ornaments from the years past. We have a tradition of giving each of the kids their own ornaments every year. They loved seeing what they had when they were babies and stuff.

Here's all the happy boys with the finished product. Logan turned off the light and we all just sat and stared at it and talked about how magical a tree can be. I don't really know what it is, but with the lights turned on some kind of magic seems to happen, I love it.

I couldn't find ornaments that I liked this year or what I really wanted to represent this year for each boy, so I took them to Kmart and let them pick. We found some good ones. Porter wanted this cute little car which I thought represented us living here in Michigan pretty well.

Logan picked a bicycle since this is the year he got his first big boy bike and can ride it, with training wheels all by himself.
I love this time of year. I know we should always try to carry Christmas in our hearts all the time, but there's something about this time of year that is just magical to me. I love it. It makes me more grateful for the blessings that I have in my life and gives me a greater desire to go out of my comfort zone and to help those around me in need. It's the most Wonderful Time of the Year.

Monday, November 24, 2008

We are thankful

Well I didn't know whether or not if I should post or wait to post (since we're going private tomorrow). I decided to post otherwise I feel like I might overwhelm you all with one ginormous post.
Every year in our little family we have made a garland of gratitude, thanks to the idea from our friends and family fun magazine. Thanksgiving is one of Brandon's and mine favorite holidays. It gives a chance to look back throughout the year and to remember the things in our lives that we are truly grateful for. I also think that it's a great start into the magic of the Christmas season that I absolutely love as well.
It has been fun to see what our kids come up with and how they have changed year to year, from us prompting them with things to be thankful for to coming up with their own thankfuls. So here we are hanging up our Garland of Gratitude to help us remember the good things in our lives this year.

Brandon is thankful for:
A job that he loves
Family
A new baby
Friends
Kim is thankful for:
Phones
Health
My Boys and baby girl
Prophet
Logan is thankful for:
Transformers
Bumble Bee
Dinner
Mom
Porter is thankful for:
Cars
Daddy
Leaves
Papa's, Grandma's, Aunt's, Uncle's, and Cousins

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Who needs brooms and dust pans

Porter was eating chips with his lunch and fell off of his chair, knocking all of the chips to the ground. Since it was just the chips and they weren't smashed I just told him to pick them up and put them on his napkin and throw them away. What started out as chip picking up, turned into picking up every little crumb and dirt off of the floor. Logan and Porter spent a good half hour looking under the couch, in the cushions, under the table legs, basically everwhere and picked up all the crumbs for me. Tell you what I just might never have to sweep again.


If you can see in this picture you can tell Porter was in a hurry to get dressed this morning. Yes that is 2 different colors of underwear band lines that you see. He put his clean underwear over his underwear from yesterday. Yep that's my boy!


Sunday, November 16, 2008

Grandparents, birthdays and snow Oh My!

This last week we had Brandon's parents come out and visit us. We didn't have any big plans, just let the kiddo's hang out with their Papa and Grandma. It snowed the beginning of their visit and rained almost the rest of the time and then snowed today when they left. Papa and Grandma took the boys to the park many times and on lots and lots of walks, Logan and Porter had a ball.






We had a preschool field trip while Papa and Grandma were here and we went to the Morley Candy Factory. It was a lot of fun, mostly because we got free chocolate afterwards, yum!

As we were leaving for the airport today it started to snow pretty good and Logan and Porter were in heaven. Their favorite thing to do is throw snow balls, as evident by the picture. When Porter came outside he came running with his mouth wide open to catch a snow flake.


After we droppped Papa and Grandma off at the airport Logan said, "I'm sure going to miss papa and grandma being here." So thanks Wally and Denise for coming and spending time with us.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOGAN
Man where does the time go?? It seems just like yesterday that we had him. What a little sweet heart and blessing he has been in our life. He turned 5 on friday and had a "great" day. Thursday night I went and bought a happy birthday sign at the grocery store. I brought it home to hang up and noticed that it said, H-Y-P-P-Y * B-I-R-T-H-D-A-Y. So I got Brandon to go to the grocery store and trade it. He looked at the rest of them and they were all spelled wrong and of course made in China. So we had to get a different sign that wasn't as cool or so I thought. Porter woke up first and saw the sign and presents and ran and woke up Logan. Logan's first response was "Wow mom, I like the shiney sign". So it worked out.
We took him out to breakfast to the "Original Pancake House" that he loves. He then had to go to preschool and was able to take a treat to his friends there and thought that was pretty cool. When he got home from school he opened up his presents and thought he was in heaven. He really is an easy kid to please and just ate up everything that was happening.
He finally got his black hole to complete his planet heroes set and it just made his day.

We went to Red Robin for dinner and they came and sang to him. He got so excited and speechless and didn't know what to do. It was so funny to see him get shy with that much attention. We came home and had cake and ice cream. He wanted a captain america cake and the only captain america things were these tiny little action guys. But as you can tell it didn't matter he thought it was so cool anyways.
Brandon and I are so proud of Logan and are so happy that he is in our family. He is the best big brother to Porter and a great friend. He tries his best to do what is right and is always quick to compliment someone or say he's sorry. We love you Logan, Happy Birthday.
Today was Logan's first primary program, (last year he threw up during the announcements in sacrament and missed the program.) He memorized his part as did all of the kids and sang his best. He was so cute. He kept yelling-whispering "Hi Dad". Then he would wave, give winks and thumbs-ups and when singing he would give us a sallute. Besides that he sat pretty still (bribary does work), and had so much fun.








Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Fine I'm going to do it

After talking it over and over with Brandon we decided to make our blog private. I really am not a fan of the private blog, as I'm a lurker on some blogs. (That kind of sounds like a dirty thing, but it's not.) So leave me a comment if you want an invite and I'll send you one. We'll be going private in 2 WEEKS, NOVEMBER 25th. Hope to hear from you.

Friday, November 7, 2008

Just to let you know

If you click on my Frugal is Fab icon on the side you can get a $2.00 off any Goody Ouchless hair accessory. You can also print if off as many times as you want, you can only use one at a time. They expire Dec 31, 2008 so you could get stocked up on hair things.

There is also a free 8x10 code at Walgreens. You just order online and go pick it up. I'm picking mine up today. It expires tomorrow though.

Just thought I'd share the good deals, as I'm always looking for them.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

My opinion...

I've had a lot of mixed feelings about this election. For one I was never really excited about either candidate. But as I looked at the issues more and more I became a McCain advocate, I could understand his issues for the most part. I was very disappointed when he lost, I knew it was a long shot for him, but I held out hope. I am not a Barack fan, never have and probably never will be. I talked with people yesterday who started crying saying "isn't it wonderful to see a black man make it?" Frankly I don't care what color he or she is, this wasn't an election about color, or it shouldn't have been about that. Anyways before I rant too much I will just say I read a Bob Lonsberry article and I agree with a lot of what he said. I didn't vote for Obama, but I will give him a chance. Here's some of what I liked in that article, you can read the rest online at <http://www.boblonsberry.com/writings.cfm?story=2501&go=4
"Election Day is our greatest day. It is the defining American day. We fight wars as a means to
an end, and the sovereignty of the people and the liberties necessary to protect that sovereignty are the end. We transfer more power than humankind has ever held on the peaceful basis of counted ballots. We do it with grace and faith. The grace to act as citizens and the faith that our system will work and the right will be done.
Barack Obama was not my choice, but he is my president. That is true of all Americans. For the last eight years, there has been an ongoing campaign of destruction meant to handicap and hobble the last president. I refuse to be part of an effort to do the same to the next president. Those who didn't vote for Barack Obama must set a higher standard of civility and citizenship than those who didn't vote for George W. Bush. In defeat, there must still be nobility.
That doesn't mean silent servility. It doesn't mean differences and principles are ignored.
But it does mean the new president gets a new chance. It means we all must pray for him and work with him to make our country stronger and safer and better.
Pretty speeches notwithstanding, there remains a great divide, much of it created by the recent election. To the extent it needs to be bridged, it will be bridged by an effort by the president-elect to reach out to those who don't trust him, and by an effort by the people to reach out to a president who might not trust them.
The last eight years have taught us what happens when you set out to destroy a presidency for political gain. You help your candidate, but you hurt your country. That pattern must not be followed with this new president. America must treat Barack Obama better than he treated George W. Bush.
He has preached a "shift to the center," he has claimed to be "post partisan." Through the campaign, those were just words.
In the administration, they will need to be more.
Or all the hope and the change and the hooplah will be meaningless hype.
But today is a new day, and a fresh start. And the president-elect gets the benefit of the doubt. "
- by Bob Lonsberry © 2008

Sunday, November 2, 2008

Our new Fab, FREE, Find... we love HOME DEPOT

So like with most things we may be the last to know. Well actually my father in law told Brandon about this but with most things if you think it will be passed on to me or my kids, you don't tell Brandon. I might not find out about for weeks, months or even years.
Last month on General Conference weekend we ran over to Michaels to get some things for the kids to work on during conference. Home Depot is right next door to it and they had fire trucks, and ambulance's around it and a ton of kids. So we walked over there to see what the commotion was all about. It turns out that October is fire safety month, so the local fire department was there and Home Depot was doing this awesome wooden fire truck. I walked up and asked how much to particpate in all this fun and was shocked when they said, FREE. So of course we got ourselves a little fire truck, FREE food, and a FREE little peek into the fire truck and ambulance. The boys were in heaven. I later found out that Home Depot does these kid activities the first saturday of every month. So yesterday Brandon had to work and I didn't want to clean, (I'm such a procastinator), we went to Home Depot and made a leaf press, don't really know what it is, but they boys had fun and it gave us something to do and it was FREE. This time the boys also got a FREE apron that if they wear everytime they get a FREE hot dog and a FREE completion pin to stick on their apron. It was so much fun and my boys both could actually do the hammering and the twisting of the wing nuts on and such.


Yesterdays fun project, with their cute little FREE Home Depot Aprons. Once they were done they started fighting in the store. Porter went and bit Logan's jacket and Logan dragged him around the store for a minute. I just looked around and asked the people around me where their mother was, as I got them cornered and lectured about how we behave in public. Oiy, do you think we're ready for another one??

These are the boys trying to show off their cute fire trucks that they made. As you can tell with our pictures lately, it takes a lot of effort to get them to smile at the same time and to look at the camera at the same time. Some day they might get it.


Friday, October 31, 2008

Halloween... Trick-or-Treat

Once again Halloween has come and gone, and once again we have to learn the ways of a new place. In Iowa they had beggars night where you went out trick or treating on the 30th. Here you don't go out unitl it's dark. Every house we hit we got the comment, "my you're early" or "You're our first trick or treater's." Needless to say it got a little ridiculous. On our way home we still hadn't seen any other kids out trick or treating, but we were able to get home while it wasn't cold outside and it was just getting dark. The boys hit the jack pot with their treats this year and unfortunately I had to sample a few to make sure they were okay.

One of the houses we went to was really decked out in decorations and they had this pirate ship. My boys thought it was the coolest thing. So like the poor kids we are we used it as our back drop and snapped a few pictures.


By the time we were about half way done my kids were getting a little tired. So if there was a bench or steps they would sit down after ringing the door bell and wait for someone to come to the door. Once someone came to the door Porter would yell, "Yay, they're here! They're here!" Their bags that they carried started to get too heavy that it would throw Porter off balance. He was falling all over people's bushes and the ground. It was a good Halloween, next year we'll know better and go out at the right time.



I finally got some pictures of the beautiful fall leaves out here. Isn't it pretty?? I think so!